Endless swiping can feel like a second job, draining self-esteem and hiding real connection. Pause all matching apps for a week to calm dopamine cravings, then rebuild offline confidence through hobby meet-ups, micro-volunteering, and friend introductions. When you reinstall, limit checks to two 15-minute windows, message only shared-interest matches, and suggest an in-person coffee within three exchanges. Intentional rules transform dating apps into tools instead of energy sinks, restoring mood and hope.