Realistic New Year Resolutions: Why Big Goals Fail

Most New Year resolutions fail because they rely on motivation instead of systems. If you’re tired of the all-or-nothing cycle, there’s a better way. Tiny “If-Then” rules—like plugging in your phone across the room or delaying checks until a set time—turn vague intentions into automatic habits. These micro-steps build confidence, reduce overwhelm, and help you create realistic New Year resolutions that actually last. Change happens when your rules get smaller, not when your goals get bigger.