Realistic New Year Resolutions: Why Big Goals Fail

Paper and pen with "New Year Resolutions" written

Most New Year resolutions fail because they rely on motivation instead of systems. If you’re tired of the all-or-nothing cycle, there’s a better way. Tiny “If-Then” rules—like plugging in your phone across the room or delaying checks until a set time—turn vague intentions into automatic habits. These micro-steps build confidence, reduce overwhelm, and help you create realistic New Year resolutions that actually last. Change happens when your rules get smaller, not when your goals get bigger.