Constant pings flood reward circuits, but real change starts with a clear why. Audit unlocks for one day, highlight the three apps that steal most energy, and label every pickup mood. Then craft device free zones, replace boredom swipes with five minute movement hits, and text a partner nightly screen score for accountability. Slip ups are data, not defeat; review Fridays and adjust. Consistent boundaries compound into focus, calmer sleep, and technology that serves you.