generational trauma

Inherited trauma rarely announces itself. It shows up in your body, your relationships, and your habits — wearing the costume of “that's just how I am.” Here's how generational trauma surfaces as hypervigilance, repeating relationship patterns, addiction, control, and people-pleasing, and why recognizing it is the turning point.
“What's your attachment style?” became a third-date question, but the dating-app version gets one thing backwards. Your attachment style isn't a fixed personality trait you were born with — it's a pattern you learned, and often one you inherited. Here's where it really comes from and how it can change.
“Generational trauma” gets thrown around on TikTok for everything, but the real thing is far more useful than the watered-down version. Here's what intergenerational trauma actually is, how it passes between generations, the signs you might be carrying it, and why you can be the one it stops with.