Blog Archive for Beverly Zhai
The first holiday after divorce doesn’t have to feel like a loss. In fact, mine turned out sweeter, calmer, and surprisingly joyful. By letting go of old expectations and creating simple new traditions with my kids, the season became ours again: cozy, meaningful, and enough. If you’re navigating this transition, you’re not alone. With a few gentle shifts, your holidays can feel lighter and more aligned with what truly matters. Let’s make them yours.
If your evenings keep disappearing into binge-scrolling, streaming, or “just one more episode,” these three simple shifts can help you reclaim real downtime. From using app-based limits, to setting built-in screen boundaries, to filling the digital void with hobbies that genuinely energize you, this guide offers practical changes that actually stick. With bonus tips for navigating kids’ screen habits and emotional transitions, it’s a compassionate roadmap to calmer nights—and a life that finally feels like yours again.
I once believed my colour-coded calendar proved I had elite time-management skills until divorce, job loss, and a global shutdown handed me empty evenings I didn’t know how to fill. With no distractions left, I realized I wasn’t managing time; I was stuffing it to avoid asking harder questions. As screen time crept in to replace the chaos, I had to face what I was really chasing and what I actually wanted from my newly reclaimed hours.
