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Ghosting Distress

Ghosting distress is the sharp ambiguity of being cut off without explanation — common in dating, friendship, and workplace contexts, and intensified by online visibility of someone who has gone silent. Evidence-based supports include attachment-informed therapy, CBT, DBT skills, and self-compassion-based approaches. Offline.now lists a growing network of licensed therapists who work with ghosting distress.

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